paisley Posted March 22, 2004 Report Share Posted March 22, 2004 MarcO's crazy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kung Posted March 22, 2004 Author Report Share Posted March 22, 2004 Seriously folks we need some more details for this to be remotely interesting. And no it doesn't have to be 'he placed his burning phallus between her quivering quim'. I'm not sure what I was getting at with this thread apart from more boobage. I get the sense that despite being comfortable with their bodies ladies at our shows probably don't feel comfortable enough to disrobe. Whereas at something like Hillside you see more of that because it's more of a family/lesbian bash (bad lesbian not good lesbian). I just find it odd that you don't even really hear people talk about sex or eroticism, whether online or in person. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MarcO Posted March 22, 2004 Report Share Posted March 22, 2004 quote:Originally posted by - - - - paisley - - - -: MarcO's crazy Well you're perfectly well adjusted. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
paisley Posted March 22, 2004 Report Share Posted March 22, 2004 quote: Originally posted by MarcO: quote: Originally posted by - - - - paisley - - - -: MarcO's crazy Well you're perfectly well adjusted. enough to find the music at most shows sexy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CyberHippie Posted March 22, 2004 Report Share Posted March 22, 2004 The most boobs I ever saw at a show was Eden Fest. It was an alternative pop festival some years ago. Featuring bands such as, Space Hog, Porno for Pyro's, The Hip, Bush etc... So I think what Kung is getting at is why would I have seen way more boobies at Eden Fest than Bonnaroo? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
treefaery Posted March 23, 2004 Report Share Posted March 23, 2004 I've bared my breasts many times at shows.... well, mostly festivals....in fact, I think I was nude almost one whole weekend of CTMF. Sorry you missed out. But maybe if you got naked more often, then people would follow suit. It's like when no one's dancing, someone has to get up and start it, and then everyone follows. As for the sexiness of jambands. I love jam music and many jams could turn me on.... but it really depends on the style. I won't get started on the sexiness of the musicians.... that just gets me in trouble. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NewRider Posted March 23, 2004 Report Share Posted March 23, 2004 quote:Originally posted by treefaery: I've bared my breasts many times at shows.... well, mostly festivals....in fact, I think I was nude almost one whole weekend of CTMF.Was this that "Hippie Girls Gone Wild" video I kept hearing about from Insta-Gator? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gentlemonkey Posted March 23, 2004 Report Share Posted March 23, 2004 I would never discourage any one from enjoying a show however they want. getting naked is fun, so is seeing someone naked. That said, I think making the show watching environment a safe and comfortable one for women should be priority to all of us. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CyberHippie Posted March 23, 2004 Report Share Posted March 23, 2004 So next Nero show you guys will play naked? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
paisley Posted March 23, 2004 Report Share Posted March 23, 2004 pajama party nero shows maybe (love ya guys but...) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
secondtube Posted March 23, 2004 Report Share Posted March 23, 2004 it'll take 'wanking' to a whole new level. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jared Posted March 23, 2004 Report Share Posted March 23, 2004 i'll show you mine if you show me yourse Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kung Posted March 23, 2004 Author Report Share Posted March 23, 2004 That's exactly what I was trying to do Monkey 'create a safe environment'. Seriously though I think it comes down to the fact that women for the most part despite otherwise 'free' values don't feel comfortable. I don't know that it reckons that women at Edgefest or a Gwar show feel more comfortable in that case they're just way bigger skanks (in the non-skanktuarian sense of the word). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meggo Posted March 23, 2004 Report Share Posted March 23, 2004 sex and shows... my two favourite words... i agree with treefaery and pais... i think that seeing any musician givin it their all (well almost any..) is damn sexy. if they happen to be playing some slinky latin groove, all the better. as for disrobing at shows... knowing myself i would probably misplace everything i came with. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
paisley Posted March 23, 2004 Report Share Posted March 23, 2004 quote:Originally posted by meggo: sex and shows... my two favourite words... go sagittarians! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ggrtrhhrtgg Posted March 23, 2004 Report Share Posted March 23, 2004 well, Kung if it would make you feel better, I will make the sacrifice and be a team player, and this friday I am willing to give out some free lovin!!! any takers??? hehehehe Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zimmerman pt3 Posted March 23, 2004 Report Share Posted March 23, 2004 I'm 30th row floor with my buddies at Phish Buffalo '96; just as I'm peaking during Free, my buddy clings onto my shoulders laughing his ass off; he points to a couple in the row in front of us where this dude is getting a HJ from his woman standing in front of him (with her arms wrapped behind); I nearly lost my shit; the Free jam was quite exceptional for 96! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
onthejourney Posted March 23, 2004 Report Share Posted March 23, 2004 hmmmmmmmmmm....well, my thoughts on this are that personally i enjoy being naked although i can't say i ever have been at a show, minus skindippin' at ctmf. But one question that comes to mind is that, do you want girls to get naked/topless just so you can ogle them? and then, why don't you males get naked then too? and then, wondering why most women feel uncomfortable with the actuality of 'disrobing' at a show, can you blame us when we know that for most part, it won't be coming down to that being naked is being free...i am sure there would be less 'appreciation' and respect then there would be the whispers of 'what i would do to her' etc.... i am not saying that all men (or women) would be like that, but let;s be honest here... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Esau Posted March 23, 2004 Report Share Posted March 23, 2004 quote:Originally posted by NewRider: Was this that "Hippie Girls Gone Wild" video I kept hearing about from Insta-Gator? Nope,that was at JstSmkd1's place...that was a fun night though,there used to be the video footage on Jamhub,but I think its gone now after the new format took place. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vermontdave Posted March 23, 2004 Report Share Posted March 23, 2004 I remember an old boyfriend of my sisters telling me that chicks always showed their boobs at Dead shows. Those would've been shows from the late seventies. By the eighties things had changed. peace w/boobs Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kung Posted March 23, 2004 Author Report Share Posted March 23, 2004 You are so right journey, that's why we need more exposure to desensitize us. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
paisley Posted March 23, 2004 Report Share Posted March 23, 2004 found it strange being on the nude beaches out west that girls get ogled 10 times more on a 'normal beach'... if everybody's nude it doesn't seem like that big a deal... clothing is a bigger turn on and attention getter than its given credit for Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rob Not Bob Posted March 23, 2004 Report Share Posted March 23, 2004 Well, most of my sex/nudity experiences having been at Pagan fests and have spent a lot of time at the nude beaches, and agree ... if you are the one clothed person at a nude beach, *you* are the one who stands out ... that is why I am always suitably attired Having grossed everybody out with the thought of me naked ... RnB Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Douglas Posted March 23, 2004 Report Share Posted March 23, 2004 For me, it's all about the shock factor. I hate to say that I'm a follower, but in this sense I will admit it. Too many people point out the naked folk or chat about them on a message board. What's so free about that? There was one time last summer where I felt so liberated as to dispose of the pants...after taking a little dip in a water fountain somewhere near The Dekcuf. Sure they were wet, but I was no more cold with them on as I was with them off. But I was only with friends and the ol' hitch so there was no worry about uncomfortableness (word?) or shyness on anyone's part. Nudity, no matter how normal we want it to be, just isn't "normal" yet/again. Maybe someday.... And I'm not convinced that it has anything to do with the "jambands" scene as it does the people you are with, the fun you are having, and of course the level of comfort. That's all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DevO Posted March 23, 2004 Report Share Posted March 23, 2004 Earthfreak, DownTown, Jessers and I watched a young lady get naked (down to her underwear!) during nero's setbreak in Peterborough the other night!! Mind you, we were outside on a rooftop smoke-spot, and I don't think she realized there were 10 people smoking joints right outside her window at the time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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