My status was the same, although I respectfully declined to include 'RIP Julia' as I'm pretty sure we never met, and my daughter is named Julia, and that would have been awkward to say the least. Brian, as mentioned, I'm not sure we've ever met (maybe briefly at P&F Rochester) but I've been thinking about you since I read this last night ... I can only hope that my long-distance vibes can reach you, and those closest to you both, and provide some form of comfort to you now and the time to come.