No Meggo, I did not have you in mind when I wrote that post at all. Truthfully I can't see the relation to the N word and gay/homo/fag/queen etc, but hey, I've been a fag hag since the eighties and I've been using those terms with my 'homosexual' and related culture peeps since then--but most of the peeps I've known through the years don't take themselves so seriously so maybe you've known and spent considerable time with more politically driven homosexuals. Like I said before-everyones different.