When someone tells me this i always want to hit'em in the face because it either comes at the wrong time or wrong timing....but this WILL make you stronger bro. Once you prove to yourself that you can (and will) rise out of this tragedy, you'll realize that nothing can stop you. Sounds like you've already handled this better than most people i know would have, so STAY STRONG and lean on your friends, that's what they're for.