I agree, but some people have their perfect job that does define them, not define who they are as a human being, but defines their passions and love, I think that my job defines me, I’ve taken a pay cut and searched for years to find it....I see that with lots of people on this board. Shainhouse comes to mind, and not saying that he loves his job all the time (because I wouldn't know), that it's not a struggle, I'm sure he's had to work hard to get where he is, does this not define him, in a way? (this is also the first time that I have ever felt this way about a job)