I feel like when you dont' forgive someone, it's you that looses in the end, not them! It's so very hard to let go of someone who has hurt you but eventually it's bound to happen (unless U are out for blood... My name is Inigo Montioa. You Kill my Father. Prepare to DIE.) Just because of time. I know I've been hurt by a lot of people but after a while it kinda goes away.