Really? Whose kids are you hanging out with? Or are you just talking about random kids at the mall? I have a lot of friends with kids now. The kids I know are mostly well-behaved, respectful and sweet, because their parents are quality people who take the time to give their children a loving and supportive environment. I grew up surrounded by domestic violence and it took years to flush all the psychic crap out of my system. Violence is totally wrong, all the time. If you are hitting your kid, at all, it is because you are failing your job as a parent and as a human being. Get a grip, people. I'm with Julia and Louis C.K. on this one. 100%.