phorbesie Posted October 24, 2007 Report Share Posted October 24, 2007 Let me start: don't be afraid to be vulnerable and ask for what you need. wow...doing something like that in any form has either killed or would kill any relationship i've ever been in!! my signature is my love advice Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Calamity Jane Posted October 24, 2007 Report Share Posted October 24, 2007 all's I can say is they definitely broke the mold when they made DEM. I am one lucky gal!!!but seriously, if you can't ask for (or ever hope to have) what you seek, want, want to explore, etc...then eventually you'll go outside of your relationship to find it. Vulnerability IS a wonderful thing to share. I used to LIVE by sex columnist Dan Savage when I lived in TO (can't get him often enough here in sticksville) but he has an expression called "GGG" which translates to "good, giving and game." He, of course, was always referring to sexual play, but I always figured it could apply to ANY aspect of a relationship. Basically, it's the 'golden rule'...whatever you ask/seek/want of your partner in ANY respect (sexually, emotionally, physically, mentally) be willing to offer yourself!!!/end thread hi-jack Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bokonon Posted October 24, 2007 Report Share Posted October 24, 2007 beligerant yelling at shows and highley portable? are you sure you're single? No, I'm not sure. I learned a while ago to never ask a question if there is a specific answer you don't want to hear. What you don't know you won't notice hurting you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bokonon Posted October 24, 2007 Report Share Posted October 24, 2007 And, I MISS YOU CJ!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gr8FuL Posted October 24, 2007 Report Share Posted October 24, 2007 So your not single?? haha :crazy: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bokonon Posted October 24, 2007 Report Share Posted October 24, 2007 Probably not. Besides, I'm a total shrew, ask Neugroove! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gr8FuL Posted October 24, 2007 Report Share Posted October 24, 2007 haha i'm only messin with ya.cheers Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jonyak Posted October 24, 2007 Report Share Posted October 24, 2007 You got the wrong band whore with that one. I'm the one that yells excessively and beligerantly.did I meet you at moe this summer? In ottawa? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bokonon Posted October 24, 2007 Report Share Posted October 24, 2007 Nope. Haven't been to Ottawa in years. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bokonon Posted November 1, 2007 Report Share Posted November 1, 2007 Okay, now I'm in!!I'm single again, shagadelic! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gr8FuL Posted November 1, 2007 Report Share Posted November 1, 2007 You're sure?? haha way to go its goodtimeZ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bradm Posted November 1, 2007 Report Share Posted November 1, 2007 I, too, am one.Aloha,Brad Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sarahbelle Posted November 1, 2007 Report Share Posted November 1, 2007 K one thing I've been thinking of.. is how come it is soo often thought of as negetive to be single?It's hard sometimes yeah but so is being in a relationship. Being single is great because you have your independence...I find you have more adventures being single too. You meet more interesting people...and you are free!!! I feel comfortable with being single.. I think it's under rated sometimes..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bokonon Posted November 1, 2007 Report Share Posted November 1, 2007 I'm a big fan of having somebody cuddly and furry to curl up with at night. I think it's my inner child yearning for a teddy bear, but now that I'm grown up I want to be able to do naughty things with said bear.And I like having that intimate connection with somebody, where you share similar values and have all these fun little inside jokes and whatnot.I'm a sap, somebody shoot me please. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NewRider Posted November 1, 2007 Report Share Posted November 1, 2007 Take it over to this site people! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bokonon Posted November 1, 2007 Report Share Posted November 1, 2007 Bite me, dirty hippy! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sarahbelle Posted November 1, 2007 Report Share Posted November 1, 2007 Bokonon I totally agree with those things too... I just think too many of us just see single as WRONG... WTF... just live ur life... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bradm Posted November 1, 2007 Report Share Posted November 1, 2007 I think a person's desire (or need) for romantic companionship is like a lot of other aspects of the human experience*: it varies from person to person. While most of the populaton wants/needs/desires a single long-term partner, there are others who need more partners, and others who don't need any. It's the way that long-term partnership is so tightly coupled (pardon the pun) with reproduction that makes hard-core singles be considered "wrong," I think. To me, the goal of living your life should be happiness. If you're happy being single (at a particular moment), then that's all that needs to be said. That (seeming) cliche of a person (usually a woman, for some reason) who thinks he/she has to get married by a certain age is completely missing the point, in my opinion: marriage (or a long-term relationship) is not an end in and of itself; it's a means to an end, the end being happiness. Aloha, Brad P.S. All that said, I like ethnic food, good music, long walks on moonlit beaches, and discussions about pieces of furniture and where they can be placed in a room. * The aspects I'm thinking of would include a person's fondness for or ability at music, a person's desire for pets, the type of living situation (urban vs. rural, big estate vs. apartment, etc.) the person wants, a person's ability at math or literature, etc. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ol'Hickster Posted November 1, 2007 Report Share Posted November 1, 2007 Yea I enjoy having the company of a special someone but I am very happy being Single soo many adventures and fun ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gr8FuL Posted November 1, 2007 Report Share Posted November 1, 2007 there's good and bad about both sides....I totally enjoy being single way more than being in a relationship. I just hate drama that comes with relationships, too laid back for that nonsense Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NewRider Posted November 1, 2007 Report Share Posted November 1, 2007 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ol'Hickster Posted November 1, 2007 Report Share Posted November 1, 2007 Oh My GOD NOT DINNER TIME!!!!! NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
c-towns Posted November 2, 2007 Report Share Posted November 2, 2007 Single, cool. Prostitutes, not so cool. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ol'Hickster Posted November 2, 2007 Report Share Posted November 2, 2007 Only when your local not when your on your away game hahahahah Just jokes ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
c-towns Posted November 2, 2007 Report Share Posted November 2, 2007 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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