i think its fair to say once someone makes a post on this board, they are open to be commented on. to me its kinda like a multi-way converstaion. if i post it publicly, by all means comment. or else there would be many dead-end threads. i would hate to see someone who might of been in a similar situation as Bennyd's wife was, read your post and feel guilty or regret at the show just for trying to do something nice, hence i felt the need to comment. me bringing up my past actions, was simply to state WOW, thanks for being so rude.i mean after all sometimes you are treated poorly by strangers, but when you've actually done something for someone, and then are treated badly, it somehow feels worse. try and spin it any way you want, but i still feel your comment was rude, and upset me. by the way, not christian.