Calamity Jane Posted October 26, 2005 Report Share Posted October 26, 2005 post deleted, with apologies to those offended... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chewie Posted October 26, 2005 Report Share Posted October 26, 2005 ::reads above and immediately closes window:: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ge-off Posted October 26, 2005 Report Share Posted October 26, 2005 wow not yet 5 year old.. HOLY MACKANAW Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Calamity Jane Posted October 26, 2005 Author Report Share Posted October 26, 2005 ::reads above and immediately closes window::Oh, Chewie! I never meant to offend....hope you're not offended! Really!but hey, buddy, if you're not a parent already (are ya?) then prepare yerself! This is "tip-of-the-iceberg" stuff, I figure, in terms of what a tough gig parenting can be. Much rather discuss this (sexuality) than deal with the much HUGER issues (I think, anyway) of teen-pregnancy, suicide, OD-ing, etc.many of us approach parenting with the belief that we can do better than our own parents. If my girls grow up to feel NO SHAME in their bodies and to enjoy their sexuality, then I've done a good job, I reckon. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ge-off Posted October 26, 2005 Report Share Posted October 26, 2005 i think you handled it well... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
headymamamyrna Posted October 26, 2005 Report Share Posted October 26, 2005 Call Sue right away! She has all the answers! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jayr Posted October 26, 2005 Report Share Posted October 26, 2005 good god would it be embarrassing when you're older to find out that your Mom had posted this story on internet! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alexis Posted October 26, 2005 Report Share Posted October 26, 2005 debby deb deb....you did a way good job. that was SUCH a hilarious read....i almost peed my pants....i bet evil mouse was glad he lost the coin toss on tucking in tonight!perhaps instructions on hand washing might be useful though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elemeno Posted October 26, 2005 Report Share Posted October 26, 2005 maybe you should save things like this for family theropy sessions. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MamaPink Posted October 26, 2005 Report Share Posted October 26, 2005 ugh... personal stories on this board are getting WAY out of hand. I can't believe you would write such a thing to the general public about your own daughter. If my mom ever told the world about my personal life, I would be mortified. You might have handled that situation well, but you sure blew it when you came on a music message board to tell everyone all the details. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Calamity Jane Posted October 26, 2005 Author Report Share Posted October 26, 2005 well, clearly I'm a 'boundary pusher'...and no apolgies there...but I do apologize that some people were offended by the frankness of my post/story about my daughter and I do hear the accusation that this was the wrong forum (a parenting forum would have been better of course)But this is a community of people I know and love...many of whom know my children. If we want a better world for them, want them to be innately happy in their place in the world --- especially girls -- then we need to acknowledge, not repress, that every single human being --- from infant to 92 years old is a SEXUAL being (and acts on that drive). Personally, I would never take offence at that....but I do apologize that some of you did!!peaceCJ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ollie Posted October 26, 2005 Report Share Posted October 26, 2005 Nothing like opening up the remnants of a deleted thread. Way to go squeamish people. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guigsy Posted October 26, 2005 Report Share Posted October 26, 2005 oh, it was a doozie, ollie... hey deb, no offence taken here, but my biggest concern was more or less the stereotypical middle-aged internet pedophile googling certain words and coming across your post - you may have helped someone sleep better last night, and i shudder to think of that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SevenSeasJim Posted October 26, 2005 Report Share Posted October 26, 2005 Now, if you would have walked in on Dave and he had a 3 foot cucumber jammed up his ass, that would be offensive. :wink: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
backbacon Posted October 26, 2005 Report Share Posted October 26, 2005 Nothing like opening up the remnants of a deleted thread. Way to go squeamish people.I agree, I think we should all have the chance to be offended or not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shainhouse Posted October 26, 2005 Report Share Posted October 26, 2005 I read the original thread... not offended at all. I think you handled the situation well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MamaPink Posted October 26, 2005 Report Share Posted October 26, 2005 Guigsy… this was one of my concerns regarding this thread aswell. If you actually read my post you’ll see that I was never offended by the content of your post Deb, I just thought it was inappropriate to post it on the internet. If you want me to keep my opinions to a private message, then maybe you should tell your daughter’s personal stories in a private message aswell.And thank you for enlightening me with the fact that humans are sexual from birth. If you’ve ever been to one of my Fantasia presentations, you’ll hear me say that exact statement. But all of my sales are done in PRIVATE, all the stories we share are done in PRIVATE and I would never tell anyone what a customer bought or thought, let alone, come on the INTERNET and divulge such personal events. It’s called tact. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
\/\/illy Posted October 26, 2005 Report Share Posted October 26, 2005 post deleted, with apologies to those offended...Suck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
\/\/illy Posted October 26, 2005 Report Share Posted October 26, 2005 Now, if you would have walked in on Dave and he had a 3 foot cucumber jammed up his ass, that would be offensive. :wink:Or sexy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deeps Posted October 26, 2005 Report Share Posted October 26, 2005 Bring back an editted version of the thread....it wudn't all bad.It was actually quite entertaining and cute. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Im going home Donny Posted October 26, 2005 Report Share Posted October 26, 2005 (edited) No please don't. I nearly threw up all over myself upon reading it. My opinions on whether children are sexual before puberty aside....the reality of just how many pedophiles exist is what made me feel ill.This entire thread should go away. p.s. this is no diss towards Calamity whom I think is an amazing gal...just a thread that shouldn't be. Edited October 26, 2005 by Guest Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Calamity Jane Posted October 26, 2005 Author Report Share Posted October 26, 2005 yes Howler...I agree..let it all quietly slide to the bottom of the page...please.sometimes I am a REALLY slow learner. As I've said to some people already, the story I shared is one I would share in person with many people on the board.....but not having physical access to all of you, I used the 'cyber' access we share, and ended the post by saying I'd hoped people had enjoyed a little slice of life (a humorous, challenging parenting moment) from our home.The fact I forgot (and too often do forget, unfortunately) is that this is a PUBLIC forum and not just full of friends and not-yet-friends. I now realize how vulnerable I made my daughter...I really had no clue this stuff could be googled!for those still pissed they missed this thread....it'll at least make for interesting conversation when we are together in meat-space.For those bothered by the CONTENT, and not just the fact it was publicly posted, well, I guess the only thing to say is that this board has never been accused of unanimity/agreement...the varied responses are just that...varied. It's never my intention to offend or bait, only to be true to my ideas and beliefs...and as all the rest of you out there are trying to do the same, it's no wonder conflicts arise.peace, CJ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SevenSeasJim Posted October 26, 2005 Report Share Posted October 26, 2005 (edited) Nevertheless, what if you would have walked in on Dave and he had a 3 foot cucumber jammed up his ass :grin:edit.....And now the thread is locked. How fucking pathetic Edited October 26, 2005 by Guest Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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